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Post by paulbez28 on Oct 9, 2011 19:51:22 GMT
Hello lads, maybe i should not read comments and get involved in this site but it actually is very intresting reading about games / fellow referees and also me. I cant comment on fellow referees but if needs be ill stick up for my actions where i can. I read and picked up a few comments tonight and i want to say that someone said this is the best junior league around and guess what i totally totally agree, i love this league and the standard of alot of teams can play in other areas and walk it with the football you play. I love my HOBBY and im hooked on all aspects of the beauiful game and i am doing well in my career. I do get fustrated at times with teams/players but this is part and parcel. Guys if i make a mistake is geniue (sorry) but 97% im correct and kick myself for the 3%. I keep my fitness levels up and stay current with laws of the game. I know some players see red mist over refereeing decsions and I CAN see why sometimes but bite the bullet otherwise you will get stupid yellows / reds and at the end of the day your costing your teams points,money, a place in a final through suspension. This is not aimed at any team or any player in no shape or form, this is in general. Keep up the great football i see every week.
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Post by pele on Oct 9, 2011 20:03:12 GMT
Fair post Mr Berry.
Imo you are one of the better Ref's in the league and at least you explain your decision if asked during a game.
It's a tough job and never gonna please everyone.
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Post by Dowie-RAFC on Oct 9, 2011 20:13:24 GMT
Wat makes you think you are 97% right lol Paul, i agree with pele about u but when u see people on here giving off about the men in black its always about the same 1s, which is not u, some ref's in this league got bullied a school i think tbh, just like to annoy people as much as they can, to me there is only 3/4 decent ref's in our league but also i do understand that our league is nowhere the standard where we will get decent men in black at all of our games.
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Post by mrfish on Oct 9, 2011 20:18:34 GMT
I couldn't be a ref, the abuse is certain every game!! It's all about how a ref conducts their business IMO. For me, there'll always be one side or the other argue about every decision that's made but as Pele says the fact, Paul, you at least explain your decisions and respect a player's right to TALK about it deserves a great deal of respect. The ref we had yesterday in the Junior (Whatever One) was very much the opposite, especially with me. I shouldered someone off the ball once and he gave a free kick against me, fair enough if that's how he seen it but he was then going to book me for simply asking how I'd commited a foul. Agree with Pele also, Paul Berry is a ref I've had no problems with, apart from the fortnight's stoppage time he played in the Connor vs Broadway Celtic game where we won Division 2 a few seasons back, simply because I was blowing out me archie!!!
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Post by goram on Oct 9, 2011 20:20:29 GMT
i would love to b a ref
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Post by Dowie-RAFC on Oct 9, 2011 20:22:40 GMT
Lets you talk u say ? fooker told me i was to fat down at randalstown 1 nite, was cut to the bone i couldn't speak!! And yes before some1 agrees with him, o know im fat..lol
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Post by pele on Oct 9, 2011 20:29:03 GMT
Im doing the course soon lads.
So beware ;D
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Post by paulbez28 on Oct 9, 2011 20:31:48 GMT
I didnt expect some of them comments because i thought we was evil and on the dark side lol. your right, i do try to explain my decisions during games but at the end of the day i dont have too but i like too. I know im up there and respected by teams / players but sometimes i do make the odd mistake but like i said i actually go home and beat up the mrs for my mistake lol
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Post by Dowie-RAFC on Oct 9, 2011 20:45:53 GMT
Dont think you should be posting on here about you beating up your wife paul!! if the referee's are watching this im the sure the wheelers are. just saying.
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Post by paulbez28 on Oct 9, 2011 20:51:04 GMT
Haha i couldnt beat her she is harder than me
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Post by goram on Oct 9, 2011 20:51:21 GMT
lads , leave the beating up the girls alone ..... sum boys will b offended on ere
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Post by Canning on Oct 9, 2011 20:52:26 GMT
Believe me he couldn't beat her up, he bows to her every command!!! @underthethumb.com
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Post by Dowie-RAFC on Oct 9, 2011 20:52:27 GMT
Haha i couldnt beat her she is harder than me
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Post by Dowie-RAFC on Oct 9, 2011 20:53:13 GMT
Believe me he couldn't beat her up, he bows to her every command!!! @underthethumb.com Haha like you can talk
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Post by Dowie-RAFC on Oct 9, 2011 20:57:22 GMT
Canning, there is a nice picture of you on twitter, did you see it...lol
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Post by Canning on Oct 9, 2011 20:58:25 GMT
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Post by Dowie-RAFC on Oct 9, 2011 21:00:27 GMT
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Post by paulbez28 on Oct 9, 2011 21:09:58 GMT
Ps some of you are getting to old now and need to become a referee
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Post by Rab on Oct 9, 2011 21:10:50 GMT
Its a tough job, I know, I did the exam and ref'd a s**t load of games at uni. I would not be in a hurry to do it here, I enjoy playing to much and it is a thankless task, you come home sometimes in a real bad mood after getting serious abuse, it is not worth it for me, some teams are just hell bent on abusing you. It is not worth it for £40
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Post by ratman on Oct 10, 2011 11:30:50 GMT
Dont think you should be posting on here about you beating up your wife paul!! if the referee's are watching this im the sure the wheelers are. just saying. if you ask me its takes a bigger man to beat up his donor because of the stigma attached...
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Post by stevie1 on Oct 10, 2011 16:30:34 GMT
Im doing the course soon lads. So beware ;D Even you could pass the course Pele. They tell you what answers you got wrong and let you do them again I didn't need to mind you
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Post by stevie1 on Oct 10, 2011 16:32:22 GMT
I didnt expect some of them comments because i thought we was evil and on the dark side lol. your right, i do try to explain my decisions during games but at the end of the day i dont have too but i like too. I know im up there and respected by teams / players but sometimes i do make the odd mistake but like i said i actually go home and beat up the mrs for my mistake lol Did you beat her up the day you didn't send me off against Broadway Celtic?
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Post by paulbez28 on Oct 11, 2011 4:06:35 GMT
Haha lads i dont beat my wife she would beat me up 1st
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Post by Potter on Oct 11, 2011 9:55:27 GMT
We need linesmen, 4th official an goal line technology
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Post by ratman on Oct 11, 2011 11:18:59 GMT
Haha lads i dont beat my wife she would beat me up 1st no shame in it, everybody does it ...
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Post by LENNY on Oct 11, 2011 12:02:51 GMT
Haha lads i dont beat my wife she would beat me up 1st no shame in it, everybody does it ... as the saying goes lads ' YE CAN BATE THE WIFE, YE CAN BATE THE CHILDER BUT YE CANT BATE THE CRAIC.'
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Post by Rab on Oct 11, 2011 12:37:40 GMT
There actually are guys out there who batter women, I know it is only a joke (I hope) but there will be guys reading this that will actually think that it is common place, they may think everyone is at it and that it is an acceptable thing to be at. There are people who look up to referees, who respect them, because ultimately that is what it is all about, respect! but no one respects a person who batters women, so this thread should be placed along with the rest of the EPIC FAIL threads
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Post by mrfish on Oct 11, 2011 12:58:57 GMT
There actually are guys out there who batter women, I know it is only a joke (I hope) but there will be guys reading this that will actually think that it is common place, they may think everyone is at it and that it is an acceptable thing to be at. There are people who look up to referees, who respect them, because ultimately that is what it is all about, respect! but no one respects a person who batters women, so this thread should be placed along with the rest of the EPIC FAIL threads There are people out there (not very far out there) who spent the last minutes of their lunch break reading yer comment there, people who know too well the benefits in this society of beating a woman down when she dares to tackle a man's God given right to moral and physical authority. People who know of the genuine charms and leadership of the great Ratman, brother and forgotten sibling of the famous Beattle clan. I'm with Ratman and Lenny, ye couldn't beat it with a stick...unless she needs it!!!
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Post by Rab on Oct 11, 2011 13:42:09 GMT
I knew there would be people not to far from here reading this and I say to them, be brave in the face of demons that whisper in your ear, stand tall and fight against this darkness, for ye shall be seen one day, croaking your woman & Paulbez28 will strike down upon you with a yellow card for those who would attempt to poison and destroy our sista's born to another mista and you will know his name is Paulbez28 because he'll be on the internet
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Post by LENNY on Oct 11, 2011 15:26:27 GMT
I knew there would be people not to far from here reading this and I say to them, be brave in the face of demons that whisper in your ear, stand tall and fight against this darkness, for ye shall be seen one day, croaking your woman & Paulbez28 will strike down upon you with a yellow card for those who would attempt to poison and destroy our sista's born to another mista and you will know his name is Paulbez28 because he'll be on the internet ;D ;D ;D ;D
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